abrosexual
my sexuality is fluid! my attraction can change frequently, but can also stay constant for a long time. currently i am attracted to men and man/masc-aligned people.
mlm/nbylm
right now, i am nbylm and am attracted to men and men/masc-aligned people!! this is the entomology mom/nbylm flag—learn more about it here
polyamorous
i can and tend to be attracted to more than one person at a time. while i can be in monogamous relationships, i prefer to have multiple partners.
idemromantic
i have a hard time differentiating between platonic and romantic attraction. sometimes i can feel a difference but not always. i tend not to like to label types of attraction.
non-binary
my gender is rather complex. it cannot be defined by binary terms—i am not a man, nor a woman, nor am i both or neither. i am separate from the gender binary.
transmasc
even though i’m nby, i am transmasc. i relate to masculinity. i am not a man, but i sometimes feel similar to one in some ways. i overall feel masculine.
this is the citrus transmasc flag—learn more about it here
purplegender
purplegender is currently my only xenogender. i relate strongly to the color purple and its symbolism. i specifically feel an attachment to lavender, both the flower and the shade.
this is the purplegender flag i made—learn more here
genderfaun
my gender is fluid, but it never encompasses the feeling of femininity. i never feel feminine or woman-like. i tend to float between masculine and neutral or void.
neopronouns
i use they/them and he/him pronouns, but i also use neos to help express my gender. my current neos are:
vi/viol/violet/viols/violets/violetself
lav/laven/lavend/lavends/lavendself
terms and endearments
i prefer masc and neutral terms—pretty much anything that isn’t strictly female-aligned. i do love petnames, so if you aren’t sure about whether or not i’ll be ok with one then pls just ask :)
the hearts are good terms and the x are bad terms.
bro
dude/guy/boy
sib
bub/bubba
bud/buddy
babe
beloved/love
king/royalty
boyfriend/husband
beautiful/pretty (sometimes not ok)
handsome
cute
hot
sexy
sis
girl
wife/girlfriend
ma’am
woman
lady
man
queen/princess/prince
joyfriend
boo
sweetie/sweetheart